I absolutely love and believe the three points he made her in such a sweet and powerful way.
1. Opportunities look like work. They do. Be thankful for having a job. Never quit a job before you have another one. All worthy tenets.
2. Being sexy. Sexy, according to him and I second his definition, is being very smart, thoughtful and generous. Yes, yes, yes! Everything the media tries to describe as sexy is just crap to make you feel less. I absolutely subscribe to this.
3. Build a life. Don't try to conform and fit in as best you can in the world around you. Build your own life. Make it what you want it to be.
Thank you, thank you, thank you, Mr. Kutcher, for being a shining example to the kids you addressed with these profound words. At last, someone I can recommend as a worthy role model!